~ Human Being to Being Human… ~

There is a big cardinal difference between a human being and being human. Your day to day conduct and behavior of situations and handling them transpires on your character and individuality. During the day and also in your life, there are ample situations and scenarios which occur in front of you where there is a demand for you to turn a human.

A small incidence in your life can change the course of it – its entirety can dissuade your spirit and you can blame yourself to the cause of the happening. I get these thoughts as I get to talk to a soul who blamed himself for the sad predicament and an eventual loss of a life. The two friends binged on beer whilst they met after a long time as they were home isolated due to the current scenario. Their joy knew no bounds and travelling through a reckless pass in the solitude of Himalayas, their car ditched them and fell into a ravine – as luck would have it , my friend Manoj though got admitted to the local hospital but his dear other half Kishore lost his life. After two weeks of medical care, eventually Manoj came back to his home in Delhi, but the memories of that fateful day could not get over him. The sudden night hauls and insomnia took over him and he went into depression – that one event had changed his composure to a 360-degree turn.

He drilled down those last moments and even started to curse them for why at the heat of the moment they drank too much and drove to the treacherous roads in the upscale mountains. These thoughts perplexed him, and he suddenly made a big decision – to never drink and also started to campaign in the name of the lost soul – his thinking changed drastically – the long phone calls and repeated talks of that fateful moment made him sad and resentful – “ I wish , I would not have gone for that excursions and not have over indulged myself in drinking!”. The sobs continued but the vent out made him look at life in an altogether different perspective. He has become reticent and humbled with the power of the invisible or destiny as what you call it! “It is all pervasive and it will occur when the time is ripe – you cant change or ignore it” , these words of wisdom has made Manoj humane enough , though he thinks he has paid a heavy price for it!

The other day, he rang me up and vociferously spoke about an online teaching campaign free of cost for the downtrodden kids – the response has been phenomenal for him and his spirits have got enlightened – all in the name of his friend! The other day I jokingly told Manoj – it took a life for you to come to the right track – the drunkard is fast changing into a thinking soul! The best part of this whole incidence has a sweet culmination – the proceeds from his latest endeavor is directly being transferred to Kishore’s ageing parent’s account. Though nothing can fulfill the void – Kishore’s parents have slowly moved on with life but Manoj’s regular visit to his friend’s house must be a cool comfort for the septuagenarians.

To end this note of thought, as yesterday I was chit-chatting with Manoj, the discussion went into the futuristic plans of him to launch a website and may be a foundation for his friend – I surely know that Manoj has not got over this incidence and deep inside he is reluctant to admit and acknowledge that he was the triggering point of this fateful event – All I said to compose him was “ God has his own ways to showcase his presence, sometimes the event is far bigger than all of us can imagine or think – though every event has a silver lining, and for this it was “ You becoming  ‘Being human’ from just a Human being was one!