~ The Act of Forgiveness …~

Today, I pen my thoughts on the act of forgiveness – a virtue which can do wonders to the life you are living.

Forgive your friends for they were the dudes who were with you in life and they have helped you in thick and thin of life. They were your choice and that’s why you made them your friends, though now they have done something silly or unforgiving and you have severed all relationships with them – but still forgive them for those golden days of your life when they did things to accomplish your friendship!

Forgive your enemies as they are the real guiding force which propelled you to achieve what you did in life – looking back you wanted to beat them in race of life and may be all of your accomplishments were catalyzed by the feeling of enmity you propelled in your heart and thus achieved marvel of life!

Forgive your boss 😊 – yes that is a bit complicated, but still do as after all he is human and has to feel and absorb the pressure of higher-ups – he also has a life and a family to support just like you and he is a sandwich between the higher-ups and you!

Forgive your colleagues – again a tough one as they are probably your best competitors and cause of your ire or jealousy and you have to beat them at any cost – But, again they are humans too and they also pass through the same office rigmarole and grill and are expected of just like you!

Forgive your brother and sister – for they are the best pals God has given you , you probably have shared almost every single life instance with them – remember the fight for toys, the reprimand from parents and doing partners in crime thing!

Forgive your parents, for they are your living Gods, and it is because of them that you came to this life and have reached to this level of living. Think of the sacrifices they have made for you to sustain make you stand in the society – remember the late night rushing to doctor’s or forgoing of their sleep just to make sure that you have a good dreamy sleep for you were ill – they have done it all for your comfort, may be now also they ask you about nitty gritty of your things which you certainly not like as you think that you are much grown up and can take good care of yourself – your salary check is a stamp that defies their logic of you being a kid now!

Forgive yourself , as you are unique in every sense and you came to this world not for others but to live and experience life – whilst doing so, you must have done blunders and that too repeatedly, but for sure you have mend your ways and have started to improve upon your past mistakes and promised yourself to not repeat them till eternity!

Penultimately, forgive your creator – your God , for you must have fought with him and even cursed him for not giving equal opportunities in life to grow, to develop and made you achieve a pedestal in society – you remained just a mediocre employee or a common man BUT again forgive him for the best opportunity he gave you – to grow into a human being with a free will and no bondage!