Life's Misses...

 So, you have missed out in life after much trying and didn't get what you had aspired for? ..You pacify your heartbreaks by telling yourself that this is what Destiny had stored for you....Your friends did well in life in job , career and in personal space and you felt left out in many of these fronts, inspite of putting in your best foot forward - The icing on the cake being that when you introspect your life, you cannot figure out what went wrong - the decisions you took were in the best interest and the outcome favoured you!

As the years pass, your will realise that all the 'Misses' and 'Failures' were part of that subtle design which was meant for you explicitly and that was unique for you. Acceptance is the way out of this drama of life; it was always and will be the eternal guidance that would tread your life although - your cleverness will not fructify in the long run.

There are many examples of such thinking - there has been very miraculous escapes through the clutches of Death - just because you missed that 'Important' flight and that was due to a pathetic traffic jam which made you reach the Airport late and you were not able to 'Check-In' on time and were thus denied the boarding pass - soon to realise that the unfortunate Plane just got Crashed consuming ALL the victims - You sit back and profusely 'THANK HIM' from the core of the heart for saving his life  - All of your trial and tribulations surely has a purpose - even your super success as that is the responsibility and pedestal given to you to act in a way to help downtrodden souls... as Who has given to you also knows how to take it back…

If you live consciously day by day, you will start to have the tinge of life and its behaviour... the grand design will start giving you messages, it is you who should be qualifies to receive them and act accordingly and with a true purpose.... Your 'Burnt Toast' in the morning has a life purpose and a underline message... It has not happened just out of the blue ...!!!

I still remember the "Challenger Story of a Teacher" who was the only civilian selected by NASA to board and fly to space  for the "Teacher in Space" program in 1985 - as a human behaviour the teacher broadcasted the news to her near and dear ones but at the last moment she was relegated as a backup and denied the opportunity to fly to space and watched quite humbly the launch of the Challenger space craft towards the skies - Minutes later all the 7 cosmonauts were blown up in space after 73 seconds of its launch - one cannot gauge her predicament after going through this episode and what she might be thinking about all the cribbing’s and blame-game - Life certainly had a different purpose for her -

It is like this that things happen in our lives - subtly and under the table and without any noise… 

So always oblige your failures and delays and denials... things meant or you will fall in your lap as the time comes and if you qualify, things will happen naturally...You will be made to realise when you live life consciously and with awareness.... the parallel world always reaches out to you and sends those subtle happenings and messages...it is you who has to humbly accept those.... Happy living...!!!

~ Embracing Change...~

 In today’s fast changing world of Artificial Intelligence and Big Data , robotics and what not ..all the jargons are manifesting in our real lives and forcing us to change and adapt to their percept…. your world was always about change and over a period of time, we realize that the change should always be welcomed with open arms and positive affirmations…as they say “ The Change is the only Constant…” that will live with you till eternity….

Many of us are not adept in the change that is warrant of the time, because we don’t want to leave our cozy zones…we are so used to performing same jobs, following the same routine that has seeped into our daily lives…any hiccup or change that should happen is not acceptable to our living – for that we need to adapt and learn new things…we have to teach us the new dynamics of living and working and leave far being what we have been doing since ages…. For those who quickly see this coming, they take the advantage of this happening, for the rest, they loose their footing and are left over….

Certainly, we have been oblivious to the life that we have lived so far…change was and has been always the norm of the day,,, you were once a toddler and then entered school and college after some years… then came a time when you went for higher studies and finally landed up in a job and got married and became a parent… it all happened in front of you. 

You were not asked if this can be done…it just happened as a natural phenomenon of a human life…you didn’t warrant it nor could you stop your growing up….phase by phase things happened and it so happened for good…

Life is progressing in its own pace and will do so…change being the inevitable eventuality will happen ..you want it or not…the best thing you can do is to embrace this change and be in line with what the universe demands….the signal and the tinge of the other world is always right and beneficial. It is just that we don’t understand that change as we don’t like it either…as a human psychology, no one wants to leave his /her comfort zone and embrace the change….

Simply observe the time when you were born and have reached the stage you are in today… slowly and steadily time makes things happen…now that you look yourself in the mirror… you see the adulthood in you or may be approaching age…. Change happened but in silence…that is the beauty of it… it is happening and it will…as someone has beautifully articulated …” Change is the only Constant…!!!”