Wednesday, July 29, 2020

~ Rehman – a Doctor in the making ~

Rehman has been a curious student since I have known him for about 4 years now, his mother works at our house and has been working hard for a purpose - to make her son something worthwhile in life. she herself has only one anguish in her heart, that she came from a poor family which could not afford to pay for her education - she is educated up till class 8th.

A victim of early marriage followed by motherhood, Fatima as she likes to be called, has been doing maid work in our block for about a decade. On a sudden day, she talks to us about her elder son - Rehman, who is a good student and studies in class 8th - He has been a class topper and wants to be a doctor in life. Her son is a matter of pride to the family - consisting of 3 younger sisters who are mediocre in their studious pursuit. Two years hence, I had an opportunity to share time with Rehman and make him go through Science and Math’s lessons on Saturday’s and Sunday’s - the time we shared turned out to be a phenomena of sorts - Rehman turned out to be a real concept grasper - he could memorize equations and mathematical tricks in quick succession. For him, he used technology to his pursuit – mobile phone was a virtual tutor for him – quite unlike many kids I see loitering around with gadgetry and pondering over useless stuff. He has no flavor for being well dressed – a simple T-shirt and jeans along with slippers is all he wants to look comfortable – his only greed was knowledge and books!

Our talks started to compose towards concept of higher education and about challenges which such downtrodden students face during their educational journey - though the government is doing its best to have 'Prized Catch' students who secure good grades in class but considering the extra investment higher education needs, it is far beyond the economic reach of such class of society and thus it creates a vacuum for such students.

Nevertheless,I knew Rehman is class apart and would do well in his 10th Board exams - he didn’t let me down, took science and also was able to convince his mother to enroll him for a pre-medical tuition institute ( with great difficulty she did - borrowing money from close acquaintances and also taking advances from all and sundry).

The result  paid off - Rehman has done wonders in his 12th class by securing 92% marks and is all confident in taking up NEET this year - A chance conversation on phone with the lad made me think of the reminiscent 4 years since I met him. He was all a visionary and had a single minded aim of being a doctor - I guess, he has been heard and all of his efforts and dedication towards his aim has started to pay off. As we draw towards the end of our communication - Rehman assured me of one thing - 'Bhaiya, I will meet you next time when I shall be able to secure a Medical Seat in College and on the way of becoming a doctor!".

His resolve resounds of his grit and gumption and sets an example for all of us - Hard work pays - Rehman - I just want to say Good luck buddy and keep your head up to face any adversary - you are the chosen one – next time we meet , I want to see you wearing a doctor's apron next time we meet and I address you not as Rehman but Dr Rehman.....!!!

No comments:

Popular Posts

~ Life is Beautiful ~

  ‘Life is beautiful…Jiyo Dil se! ” – the laugh that followed is a lifetime remembrance- It was surprise as It came from a man which apparen...